Resources
Facing a family legal matter raises a lot of questions. Hefferon Law, PLLC has put together these free resources to help you understand North Carolina family law, know your rights, and make informed decisions — whether you're just starting to research or preparing for court. If you need help navigating this process, Hefferon Law is here.
Tools
NC Child Support Calculator — Estimate your monthly child support obligation using the official 2023 NC Child Support Guidelines. Includes Worksheet A (primary custody) and Worksheet B (shared custody).
NC eCourts Portal — Search case information, court dates, and public court records online. Covers criminal, civil, family, and probate records for Mecklenburg County and all other NC Odyssey counties.
File & Serve —The mandatory electronic filing system for attorneys in NC Odyssey counties, including Mecklenburg. Self-represented litigants can also register and file documents electronically through this platform.
Family Law Guides
NC Divorce FAQ — Answers to the most common questions about divorce in North Carolina — separation requirements, property division, adultery, and more.
NC Child Custody FAQ — What courts look at, how custody is decided, and what parents need to know before their first hearing.
The One-Year Separation Requirement — What counts as separation, what to do during that year, and what rights you could lose if you don't act.
Contested v Uncontested Divorce — What the difference is, what each involves, and which may apply to your situation.
Mediation vs. Litigation — When mediation is the right path, when litigation is necessary, and how to protect yourself in both.
Do I Need a Lawyer for My Divorce? — An honest answer to one of the most common questions we hear.
Documents
North Carolina Divorce Packet — North Carolina's Pro Se Divorce Packet gives you the forms to file your own divorce — but it doesn't cover property division, alimony, or custody. Before you file alone, make sure you understand what rights you could be giving up.
Domestic Violence Packet — North Carolina's DVPO Packet contains everything you need to seek a Domestic Violence Protective Order — including the complaint, ex parte order, notice of hearing, civil summons, and supporting forms, with step-by-step instructions included first. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
Custody Packet — North Carolina's Pro Se Custody Packet contains the forms needed to file for child custody or visitation without an attorney. Before using these forms, understand that custody arrangements established early in the process often become the baseline going forward. What you agree to now matters.
Mecklenburg County ED Affidavit — Required in Mecklenburg County family financial cases involving property division. This affidavit documents your marital assets, separate property, and debts for the court. Completing it accurately is critical — errors or omissions can affect the outcome of your equitable distribution claim.
Union County ED Affidavit — The Equitable Distribution Affidavit required for property division cases in Union County District Court. Documents each party's marital and separate assets and debts for the judge's review.
Mecklenburg County Financial Affidavit — Required for post-separation support and alimony hearings in Mecklenburg County. This affidavit documents your monthly income, reasonable expenses, and financial needs. Accuracy matters — the court uses this document to determine temporary and long-term support.
Union County Financial Affidavit — The financial affidavit required for spousal support hearings in Union County District Court. Documents income, expenses, and financial circumstances for both parties.